THE PERFECT HOLIDAY
We all dream of that perfect holiday—the one where everything goes smoothly, every sight amazes, and you return home recharged. But achieving this requires thoughtful planning, a dash of spontaneity, and a willingness to immerse yourself in new experiences. Let’s explore how to design a holiday that’ll become a lifelong memory, from start to finish.
Olivia and Julian are enjoying lazy days in their Spanish villa, a well-deserved break from their busy lives. Especially for Julian, who after a lifetime as a carer was thrust into the public eye following the tragic murder of his first wife.
The languid heat and peace of the villa is broken only by clifftop walks, sun-drenched lunches and cooling swims. Until a chance encounter with Gabriel—an attractive man, many years their junior—changes everything. Soon their idyllic break turns into a dangerous, high-stakes game of cat-and-mouse. Will any of them get out alive?
Perfect for fans of T.M. Logan’s The Catch and The Couple at No. 9 by Claire Douglas.
©2022 T. J. Emerson (P)2022 Boldwood Books
1. Choosing the Destination
The first step in planning the perfect holiday is selecting the ideal destination. Consider what you’re hoping to get out of the trip. Are you yearning for relaxation on a sandy beach, an adventure in a dense jungle, or the cultural immersion of exploring a historic city?
Take the season into account. Are you looking to escape winter and embrace the sun, or are you interested in a winter wonderland? Research destinations that fit your criteria for both weather and activities. Websites like Lonely Planet, TripAdvisor, and travel blogs can provide inspiration and essential tips.
2. Researching and Booking Accommodations
Once you’ve picked a destination, it’s time to secure accommodations. The options are endless: luxurious resorts, boutique hotels, budget-friendly hostels, or vacation rentals. Consider your priorities—is it important to be close to the main attractions, or do you prefer a peaceful spot away from the crowd?
Reading reviews on sites like Booking.com, Google Reviews, or Airbnb can help you avoid unpleasant surprises. If you’re visiting a popular location, book early to avoid last-minute disappointment and higher prices. Don’t forget to factor in the little things, like breakfast options, Wi-Fi access, and proximity to transportation.
3. Crafting a Flexible Itinerary
One of the most common mistakes travelers make is creating a jam-packed itinerary, leaving no room for relaxation or exploration. Instead, make a list of must-see attractions but allow time for spontaneity. Perhaps aim to explore one area or two main activities per day. This will give you ample time to soak up the surroundings without feeling rushed.
Look up local festivals, events, or seasonal activities. You might come across unique experiences like local craft fairs, music festivals, or traditional ceremonies that add depth to your trip. The best moments on a holiday are often the unexpected ones, like stumbling upon a quiet café or a local artist’s workshop.
4. Packing Wisely
Packing can be stressful, but it’s essential to get it right to avoid inconvenience later. Start by making a packing list to ensure you don’t forget essentials like toiletries, adapters, medications, and comfortable walking shoes. Consider the climate and pack accordingly, especially if the weather is variable.
Travel hacks like packing cubes, roll-up storage bags, and digital copies of essential documents (passport, ID, and travel insurance) can make your journey smoother. Pack lightweight, versatile clothing that you can mix and match, and avoid overpacking to leave room for souvenirs.
5. Getting There: The Journey Begins
The journey itself can set the tone for the rest of your trip. Make sure you arrive at the airport or station with plenty of time to spare. Use this downtime to relax with a book, listen to music, or review your itinerary one last time.
For long flights, dress comfortably, bring neck pillows, and stay hydrated. Download a few movies or an audiobook to pass the time. Don’t forget to notify your bank of your travels to avoid the inconvenience of blocked cards.
6. Arrival and Settling In
Upon arrival, give yourself time to get oriented. Take a leisurely stroll around your accommodation to familiarize yourself with nearby restaurants, shops, and landmarks. If you’re in a new country, pick up a few basic phrases of the local language, which can go a long way in creating a friendly first impression.
Take the opportunity to sample a local dish or two from street vendors or small eateries. It’s a relaxed way to get a taste of the local flavors without committing to a big meal after a long journey.
7. Exploring the Highlights and Hidden Gems
While visiting the iconic spots is usually a must, don’t hesitate to stray off the beaten path. Spend time exploring neighborhoods, hiking through natural landscapes, or discovering local boutiques and galleries.
Take advantage of guided tours, which can provide valuable insights and stories that you wouldn’t get from a travel book. Alternatively, set out on foot or by bicycle to explore at your own pace. This is the best way to find hidden gems that aren’t in the guidebooks—like a quiet garden or an alley lined with street art.
8. Embracing Local Culture and Customs
One of the greatest joys of travel is immersing yourself in the local culture. Spend a day following a local’s routine, whether that’s having breakfast in a small café or browsing a weekend market. Take time to learn about the history and traditions, and be mindful of customs and etiquette.
Respect goes a long way in making connections and gaining authentic experiences. Trying to speak a few words in the native language, dressing appropriately in cultural sites, and even learning the local way to greet can open doors to new friendships.
9. Making Time for Relaxation
Remember, the perfect holiday isn’t just about exploring; it’s also about taking a break from the daily grind. Take time to unwind, whether that means reading by the pool, meditating on a scenic hilltop, or napping in a hammock. Leave space for downtime so you can recharge and truly enjoy each moment.
Consider scheduling a spa day, a yoga session, or a beach day to unwind. After all, you’re on holiday—this is the time to relax and indulge.
10. Wrapping Up and Packing Memories
As the holiday draws to a close, give yourself time to reflect. Go back to a favorite spot, revisit that café with amazing coffee, or take one last stroll through a scenic area. Take time to journal, take photos, and collect small souvenirs that capture the essence of your experience.
Packing up for the return trip doesn’t have to feel like an end. Think of it as preparing to bring a piece of your travels back home with you. Take your time packing, ensuring that souvenirs are well-protected, and leave a bit of space for anything you might pick up on the way.
11. Returning Home Refreshed and Reflective
Returning home after a perfect holiday doesn’t mean the adventure has to end. Share your experiences with friends and family, perhaps by creating a photo album, travel blog, or simply talking over coffee. Reflect on the things you’ve learned, the people you met, and the unique insights you gained.
Travel often brings a fresh perspective, so take this time to evaluate what new things you can bring into your daily life—a new recipe, a new language skill, or even a new mindset.
In Conclusion: The Perfect Holiday Is About Balance
The perfect holiday isn’t necessarily one where everything goes as planned. Instead, it’s a balance between preparation and spontaneity, activity and relaxation, immersion and introspection. Following these steps, you can design a holiday that’s both meaningful and refreshing, one that you’ll remember for years to come. So, start dreaming, start planning, and get ready for an experience that will stay with you long after you’ve unpacked your bags.